It’s no surprise that this time of year the focus is on giving and receiving gifts. After all, who doesn’t like to get a nice gift? But it’s not all about “getting.” In fact, giving, it seems, is more important to us.

A few years ago, I wrote a blog about giving and how, no matter what amount we spend on a gift we give, it’s the simple act of giving that we find most beneficial—whether it’s during the Holiday season or any time of year.

With that said, “The Act of Giving is What Matters Most,” is a great re-read and my gift to you this December. Happy Holidays!

The Act of Giving is What Matters Most

(Originally posted December 9, 2015)

It really should come as no surprise that numerous studies back up the notion that “giving is better than receiving.” It’s been common knowledge as far back as biblical times (“It is more blessed to give than receive” Acts 20:35) if not earlier. And one of the most compelling facts studies reveal is that the amount we spend on giving, whether it’s $5 or $500, doesn’t seem to matter. It’s the act of giving that matters most.

With that in mind, I’ve put together a list of 10 non-traditional ways we can “give” to others this Holiday Season (and any season for that matter), and it won’t bust your budget. You won’t find any “buy it at the mall” or “Shop your nearest Macy’s” pronouncements below. That kind of gift-giving seems to come naturally. What you’ll find instead are ideas and approaches to gift giving that might not be top-of-mind for most.

  1. The Gift of Time

    From a spouse or an elder relative or a child or neighbor on your street or in your development, give the gift of time—your time. Play a game, share a conversation, stop by for coffee or tea, bake some cookies together or pass them on for the other person’s enjoyment.

  2. Give Something Homemade

    Finding it difficult to come up with an idea for what gift to give to a particular friend or relative, who seems to have all he or she needs or wants? Homemade gifts—a craft, drawing, food/dessert, knitting or sewing project—are a great way to express your appreciation for someone in a way that’s uniquely you.

  3. Volunteer

    Volunteering is one of the most rewarding ways to give back. You can volunteer at a soup kitchen, food pantry, animal shelter, or even volunteer to wrap or collect gifts. Opportunities abound. Places to learn about local volunteer opportunities include your municipal offices, churches, and schools. Online, you can find local opportunities at websites such

  4. Do a Good Deed

    Do a good deed for someone now or promise to do one in the future. Buy a stranger a coffee. Shovel your neighbor’s sidewalk. Mow their grass. Help someone carry groceries.

  5. Donate to Your Favorite Charity

    Donating to a cause can make you feel good about giving money to help fight cancer, heart disease, MS, Huntington’s, poverty, and much more. Multiply your sense of giving by making the donation on behalf of someone else—two gifts in one!

  6. Homemade Gift Certificates

    Make and give out homemade gift certificates for services such as a certain number of times you’ll mow the lawn, wash the car, take out the garbage, baby sit for someone, etc. This is an especially good way for children to give gifts to their parents or other adults, and for friends to do something nice for one another.

  7. Share a Talent

    If you have a particular talent (singing, playing an instrument, etc.), arrange a visit to a nursing home or hospital to play songs/carols.

  8. Send a Letter to a Service Man or Woman

    Whether on active duty at home or abroad, or a veteran, those who served (or are serving) our country appreciate expressions of gratitude for their sacrifices. Sending a letter of thanks that also shares a bit of hometown USA can go a long way to brightening someone else’s day. Visit to learn more.

  9. Local Toy Drives

    Participate in a local toy drive to provide toys and other much-needed items for area children in need. It’s super easy. Visit a local merchant, get a gift idea (usually adorning a bulletin board or Christmas tree) and bring your gifts back to that merchant to be delivered to the child by Christmas.

  10. Donate Used Items

    Drop off blankets, coats, hats, mittens/gloves, etc. to your local homeless shelter—or even Goodwill or the Salvation Army. Your used items will become someone else’s treasures. And don’t forget your local animal shelters! Donated items can often make the difference in the well-being of a stray or lost pet.

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Paul June is King Monkey of BARREL O’MONKEYZ, a San Diego-based strategic marketing agency specializing in Sports and Active Lifestyle markets. We serve as a seasoned, outsourced marketing team for companies looking to ramp up sales and launch new products. Our barrel is full of talent and creative arms ready to prove we don’t just monkey around!